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From Overwhelm to Overflow: Building Mental Space for Financial Growth
When I first stepped into the financial space, I was overwhelmed. Now, here’s the thing — my husband had been talking about financial growth, investments, and all the things for years. He loved it. It lit him up. And while I would listen, nod, and even be supportive… it just wasn’t my thing. I knew…
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The Capacity Gap: Why Two People With the Same Income Live Two Very Different Lives
Not long ago, one of my good good girlfriends came into town.(And yes, I said good good because one “good” is not good enough when we’re talking about my girls.) Her visit turned into a “let’s all get together” kind of moment, so I called another one of my good good girlfriends, and the three…
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When Making More Still Isn’t Enough: The Untold Link Between Mind and Money
I was 26 years old, counting down the weeks to my 27th birthday, when I learned one of the most surprising truths about money: It’s only a tool. An important tool? Absolutely.A tool I still desire more of? Without question.A tool I respect deeply? You better believe it. But at that time in my life,…
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The Wealth You Can’t See: Why Mental Health Is the Real Money Multiplier
I have a really good good girlfriend. And yes — I’m using two goods because one good is not enough. We’ve been friends for nearly 20 years, and when I say she has always had a way with money, I mean it. Money seemed to follow her like a puppy. It showed up for her…
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Clearing Space for the Life I Said I Wanted
There’s something almost magical about the act of clearing space. I don’t mean it in a metaphorical, abstract way (though that’s part of it). I mean the real-life, hands-on, open-the-closet-door-and-let-it-go kind of clearing. The sweep-the-floor kind. The pop-the-trunk-and-drop-off-the-donation kind. The clean-out-the-email-inbox-and-finally-cancel-the-subscription kind. Because clearing space is not just about tidying. It’s about trust.It’s about alignment.It’s…
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You Don’t Have to Deserve It First—You Just Have to Let It In
There’s this quiet, tender ache that lives under so many of our dreams—the belief that we have to deserve the good things we want. That we must earn, prove, or justify the joy, abundance, ease, or support our hearts long for. But what if you didn’t? What if you didn’t have to hustle for your…
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The Rituals That Helped Me Receive More With Ease
There’s a reason I love the word yummy. It’s soft.It’s expansive.It’s everything I want life to feel like: rich, delicious, beautiful, and a little indulgent. For so long, I didn’t have a word for that kind of goodness.I was really good at naming everything that wasn’t working—what I didn’t have, what didn’t go right, what…
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Generosity Is Not a Replacement for Receiving
Let me start with something tender: If you see yourself in this article, know this: You are not wrong.You are not bad.You are not broken. But you may be giving from a place that’s running on empty. This one is not my personal story. I’ve had my own receiving blocks—but chronic overgiving wasn’t one of…
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Receiving Resistance: 7 Signs You Might Be Saying ‘No’ Without Realizing It
I’ll admit this up front: I still catch myself doing it. A friend recently reached into the car to help me unload something. It was light. It wasn’t a big deal. And yet—I found myself saying, “I got it, I got it, I got it.” She gently backed off with a little smirk, and I…
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The Fear of Getting Everything You Asked For
I want to tell you a story that might not seem like it’s about money.But I promise you—it is. When I was young, I was what people called a “pretty” child. Soft-spoken.Well-mannered.Dainty.Polite.The kind of child people praised just for standing still. I had beautiful skin, long hair, and an energy that made people outside of…
