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Choosing Happiness Every Damn Day—Even When the World Says You Shouldn’t
My husband recently asked me what I wanted for my 50th birthday. Now, normally, I’d rattle off something practical, something “reasonable,” something that wouldn’t disrupt our plans or budget. But this time, something was different. Instead of responding with my usual “Oh, don’t worry about me” or suggesting something that would benefit the household instead…
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The Happiness Habit: Small Daily Practices for a Joyful Life
I still remember the exact moment I realized how much I had been ignoring myself. It was during my second or third therapy session, a milestone I had reached because I was turning 40 and grappling with the nagging thought that my life should feel different—better, somehow. On paper, things were good, even great in…
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The Beginner’s Blueprint to Building Wealth in Your 40s and Beyond
Let’s settle this right now: it’s never too late to start building wealth. Whether you’re catching up on goals, pivoting your financial strategy, or starting from scratch, your 40s (and beyond) are the perfect time to take control of your financial future. Forget the idea that wealth-building is only for the young. You’ve got experience,…
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Black Women, Minding Our Own Business—What It Really Means
For generations, Black women have been the backbone of movements, families, businesses, and communities. We’ve stood at the forefront of every fight, poured ourselves into causes, and stretched ourselves thin, believing that our labor—our sweat, our sacrifice—mattered. But today, a shift is happening. A quiet, yet powerful shift. More and more Black women are stepping…
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Permission to Pause: Why Slowing Down is the Key to Doing More
If you’ve ever felt guilty for taking a break, this is for you. If you’ve convinced yourself that rest is something you’ll earn after you’ve checked off everything on your endless to-do list, this is for you. And if you’re reading this while multitasking, I need you to pause—yes, pause—for just a moment. Because here’s…
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Finding Your Happy When You’ve Been Everyone’s Everything
For generations, Black women have carried the weight of everyone else’s happiness on our shoulders. We’ve been the fixers, the nurturers, the ones who hold it all together when the world feels like it’s falling apart. But somewhere in the midst of saving the day for everyone else, we’ve often forgotten to ask ourselves a…
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It’s Time to Break Into Wealth-Building Spaces We’ve Been Locked Out Of
For too long, Black women have been excluded from wealth-building spaces like the stock market, real estate, and cryptocurrency. These opportunities have often felt out of reach—sometimes intentionally so. But let me make this clear: We are not waiting for an invitation anymore. The days of being locked out are over. It’s time to step…
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Sis, You’re Not Behind—You’re Right on Time
If you’ve ever felt like life is racing ahead and you’re struggling to catch up, let me tell you something right now: You’re not behind. Not in life, not in your dreams, not in your purpose. You’re exactly where you need to be, and it’s time to let that truth sink in. I know how…
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